I dream’d a dream to-night
And so did I.
Well what was yours?
That dreamers often lie
Have you ever walked down the street and felt that you were on a film set? You get the sense that all the buildings are just fronts and all the people are just extras. You, as a matter of fact, are an extra. No one is who they appear to be and nothing around you is real. Where’s the leading lady? Where’s the hero? Where’s the villain? Where’s our climax? Where’s our resolution?
The joke is…
They don’t exist! The villain is volunteering at the soup kitchen. The hero is passed out drunk on a piss-stained mattress. The leading lady is nowhere to be found. If we’re lucky, we’ll get a hint of exposition. We’ll get conflict. How many of us have our turning points, though? Who really gets a final resolution… a happily ever after?
So what do we make of this? We make what we can, I suppose. Whether we commandeer the plot and become the star, or set up house behind a fake building, blending into the scenery, or walk off the present set in hopes of finding a better one, we make what we can.
Where am I going with this?
Nowhere, probably.
Did you ever find a picture of someone you didn’t know and make up a whole imaginary life for them, based on that photograph alone? Names and birthdays, childhood ambitions, the event that lead to the taking of the photograph. Or people-watch in a public place, piecing together bits of conversation to invent a situation for someone? Some private drama or celebration.
And did you ever wonder if someone was doing the exact same thing with your photograph, your conversation, your life. Is it possible for someone to dream up a situation and have it become a reality? You’d never know. The dreamer is just a stranger on a park bench of whom you take no notice.
Imagine that! A complete stranger having an impact on your life by simply thinking!
Who really gets a final resolution…a happily ever after?
In my 29 years of life I have yet to meet anyone that has ever had a final resolution or a happily ever after. If my dad would have lived after being in his work accident when I was 14 I dont think he and my mom could have had their happily ever after. If he would have survived they would have had to amputate his leg. Not something to do to my dad for sure he was always running around playing with me my sis and bro always working in the garden, taking us to mardi gras parades and just walking the levee by our house. He would have been miserable the rest of his life had he actually lived. My grandparents, all perfect for each other. Unfortunately they were severely depressed on moms side and the ones on dads side had major health problems. I can not believe I have existed for 29 years and never found one couple that actually had a happily ever after. Those that didnt have a significant other were always searching for happiness they didnt have. Now that I think about it I dont believe there is a final resolution for anyone nor do I believe in happily ever after like I did 8 years ago. That to me is very saddening.